“Christ didn’t die for me to live like this!”
The realization came upon me one day as I was struggling with domestic abuse from a minister I had married.
As a young woman, I maintained a conviction that the spirit that raised Jesus from the dead lived in me and my essential spirit was eternal.
That was the spirit that kept fighting the abuse. The faith in love and goodness overcoming kept me fighting. But I didn’t understand that reasoning could not overcome insanity.
A man who beats his pregnant wife is insane.
A man who tries to poison her drinking water is insane.
A man who justifies mistresses with the story of David has broken his vow.
A man who enforces prayer each morning and hatred each night is using coercive control.
And it took me years to understand that trying to make a relationship work with such a man was something only God could do. I could not..
A few years before this, I heard a woman say, “If you pray to be crucified with Jesus, you will be.”
The doctrine of imitating Christ by seeking out unnecessary suffering is not God’s will.
The doctrine that we must be locked into an abusive relationship because of a vow is an invention of men using God’s name.
Man-made doctrine is toxic. It is built to control women for the ego of men.
Abuse in the name of God is still abuse.
And so, when will your Easter come?
Is your faith static or dynamic? Does it exalt suffering or the abundant life in the gospel?
The Christ spirit of life was demonstrated by Jesus.
The Christ spirit within raised Jesus. It didn’t leave him in the tomb.
It doesn’t leave you there either.
Don’t believe anyone who tells you it does.
4 thoughts on “Easter: Now or When?”
Beautiful and true words, Shirley!
Wow!! These may be the most powerful words you have ever written, Shirley! They need to be widely read, published again and again. What an important Easter message!
Thank you so much, Delinda. That’s what got me through and out!