The Abuser’s Best Kept Secret

If you or someone you know is living with an abuser, he or she is overwhelmed. Even if no forceContinue reading “The Abuser’s Best Kept Secret”

A Conversation for DV advocates during COVID

Time to build up emotional and mental resources can be a power COVID social distancing has provided for those in domestic abuse.

Peacekeeping vs Passivity

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CLARITY: CONCEPTS AND ASSUMPTIONS

Joiurnaling helps us get to the bottom of what is bothering us and shows us assumptions and beliefs that may be damaging us.

A Second Tool: Labeling

Changing the way you think about 3 types of accusations is a second step to emerging from an abuser’s control.

How Churches Painted Themselves Into a Corner (And How Equality Can Get Them Out)

What does the church do when leaders betray members or members betray each other? Spiritual equality is part of the answer.